Ya there’s this concept that most people totally misjudged it, when you have something in mind it’s better to speak out and solve it as problems never end until you understand why you have to fight!
When talking can give a solution the persons who are involved should be the ones who really need to talk! Not one person and others this is so pathetic as you could be easily be mislead. If at all the other person is to take your comment positive if he hears the same from some other person the case is not as such, ask me why?
It is really easy to manage when your comment either be it negative or positive, but if you back talk and keep gossip about the fact there is no point. When you can tell a person his deeds right at his face it’s a much better act as it benefits both of you.
Well how hard it is through it on to their face it’s a lot better!