The day you are born you are destined to pursue a career of your parents wish, atleast in my part of the country. The wish of the child is the least determinant factor, because you are known to be immature to understand the world. This sometimes turns out to be a pathetic situation running to ruin lives.
There are a few cases in which our decission too might hit the hard track, but there is a big difference between both. The unconditional love and passion might help you stand up and never loose hope.
similar is in the case of an dough, assume your work makes flour and is that enough for a dough you need some binders may be water and some oil. The intrest and passion you show towards your work is that binder.once you have bound in there is no one stopping you from making the finest food. This helps you strecch your limits and helps remould yourself how hard the strike may be.
Never loose the intrest in your work how ever the job may be that intrest will never let you go down!